Change is a valuable resource, and change value can improve your life. For business owners, this means changing your value or selling at a reduced price. For couples, it means taking the relationship to the next level.
There is a huge, huge difference between a “change value” and a “change”. The former means that your money is worth an amount that you are willing to pay for. The latter means that you are willing to pay a price to get what you want. The amount of “value” you are willing to pay for things is called a “price”.
This is a topic that you can use to bring up with your spouse, but I’m going to leave this one alone. If you want me to go into the world of change value and see if it would even be possible for me to change my value, I’d love to. I’m currently trying to figure out a way to change my value for my spouse, and if you want to help me out with that, I’d be glad to.
Change value is a topic that could easily be used with the other two questions. But to be honest, I think most people would agree that it’s far more difficult than the other two questions. And I think it’s a topic that will be explored in depth in other parts of this book. All we’re going to do here is talk about it for a few minutes and then move on to the other topics.
While we’ve talked about a couple of times how we think of our values as separate from our actual preferences, often we don’t think about how different our values are from each other. So while its a topic that could easily be used with the other two questions, its not one that I think is particularly easy to wrap your head around. I think the best way to figure it out is to try it and see what happens.
I like to call this the “value paradox”. The paradox states that “what somebody thinks of as bad or wrong, you think is good or right.” I think this is true in a lot of situations, but it also means that if you’re not careful, your thoughts about values can be completely out of whack.
The value paradox is a classic example of how we think about things that are completely illogical, like how it’s a good idea to eat an apple. It’s also a good example of how we tend to be very good at thinking our way around paradoxes, like why it’s a good idea to eat a red apple. We think that it’s a good idea because the apple tastes red and delicious, but really it tastes like an apple and only tastes like an apple.
It’s a nice paradox, but as we all know, this apple doesn’t taste like an apple. It tastes like a red apple. We think its a good idea because the apple tastes red and delicious, but really its just an apple and only tastes like one.
There’s a lot of things that can go wrong in life, and the more we learn about our own choices and their consequences, the more we realize that they can be disastrous, like the time I went to an apartment complex and got stuck in a storage unit with a bunch of other people who were moving in.
Moving in with strangers can be a very stressful experience, but there are ways to mitigate it and make it less stressful. I was moving from Houston to Dallas and realized I needed to have a plan before I got there. With the help of my friend, a lawyer, I created a list of the things I would need to do before I moved in. It included contacting the apartment complex I was moving into, filling out forms, and everything else that involved figuring things out on my own.